Today we are talking about how to make the missionary sex position hot again. Old is gold, people. There is a reason why this sex position is such a favorite. Unfortunately, you can have too much of a good thing to the point it starts to seem boring. I am here to tell you why this is a great position for most couples, and how you can spice it up. Tune in to learn how.
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Ep. 79: Make the Missionary Sex Position Hot Again
Solo Episode
Publication Date: 02/17/2023
What is this episode about?
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Contents
Opening
Dr. Bawa: Welcome to the Friday mini episode of America’s number one sex podcast, Dr. Sex Fairy. I am Dr. Kanwal Bawa, America’s favorite sex doctor, and I am here to transform your life. Today we are talking about how to make the missionary sex position hot again. Old is gold, people. There is a reason why this sex position is such a favorite. Unfortunately, you can have too much of a good thing to the point it starts to seem boring. I am here to tell you why this is a great position for most couples, and how you can spice it up.
Dr. Bawa: Missionary has the couple face-to-face, in an easy position to kiss each other. This can really help a couple feel more connected. It is comfortable, and you can brace yourself as you do it. It is great for clitoral stimulation because the penis rubs against it while thrusting. If you are unhappy with the way your body looks, this position keeps you from accentuating it. There are many more benefits to it, but we are now going to switch to a discussion about how you can spice it up.
Change the Angle
Dr. Bawa: The missionary position is nothing if not versatile. You can try different variations on it. I discussed one such variation on Episode 73 of this podcast. I talked about how a woman can elevate her hips and move them in circles as the man thrusts to stimulate him in a hot new way. This variation also makes it more likely that the woman herself will orgasm because he will now be rubbing up against different parts of the vaginal canal than usual, and will also stroke the clitoris over and over with slight breaks. Do check out Episode 73 for details.
Coital Alignment Technique
Dr. Bawa: You can also try the coital alignment technique, where the focus is on clitoral stimulation. Remember, the majority of women have external clitoral orgasms, not internal vaginal orgasms. This helps a couple increase their chances of achieving it. In this position, the woman slides down and the man, or the partner wearing a strap-on, penetrates with the penis oriented downward into the vagina, not upward as is usually the case. The focus is on the shaft grinding against the vulva and clitoris, and that’s why this position is referred to as “grinding the corn.”
Pillows, Leg Position and Toys
Dr. Bawa: You can place pillows under your hips, or you can wrap your legs around the partner on top, or a combination of both. If you want deeper or more shallow penetration, move your hips up or down accordingly. Feel free to use toys if you want to try double penetration sex. In fact, this is a wonderful position for swingers. I had a great discussion with a swinger couple on Episode 76, and based on that discussion, this position can be quite a crowd pleaser! You’re welcome, pineapple crew!
Closing
Dr. Bawa: As you can see, it’s all about the angle! Now hurry up and leave me a 5-star review so that you can go try these fun variations on an old classic. Until next time.
