Ep. 160: Thicker, Longer, Stronger

[00:02] Opening Excerpt

Ep. 160: Thicker, Longer, Stronger

Host: Dr. Kanwal Bawa | Guest: John | Runtime: 32:26 | Published: December 17, 2024

John: As we discussed, I'm an inch longer. Girth is probably three to four inches wider. that is for me amazing.

Dr. Bawa: If only people could see you. You've got a naughty, happy grin on your face right now.

John: it's exciting. and so I'm now bigger than I ever was, and you know, I'm ready to put it to work.

[00:41] Welcome and Meet John

Dr. Bawa: Welcome to America's Top Sexuality Podcast, Dr. Sex Fairy. I am Dr. Kanwal Bawa, America's favorite sex doctor, and I am here to transform your life. Today I bring you an inspiring story about one of my patients whose life was completely transformed through my BawaBig® non-surgical penis enlargement procedure. His penis became an inch longer and three to four inches thicker. But the transformation did not stop there. With his newfound confidence, he started making better life choices, and now he is ready to embrace a brighter future. His journey is proof that change is possible when you take the right steps, and he is here to share it all with you. Before we begin, make sure you subscribe to this podcast and leave me a five-star review. I read every single one, and I truly value your support. Share this episode with your friends, and follow me on YouTube at Dr.

Dr. Bawa: Sex Fairy, TikTok at @drsexfairy, and Instagram at @therealdrsexfairy. Ready to transform your own life? Visit drsexfairy. com to schedule your virtual or in-office consultation. And now, let's talk about this incredible story of transformation and the power of taking control of your own life. Welcome, John. I'm delighted to have you on the Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast.

John: Thank you. Thrilled to be here.

[02:14] Finding Dr. Bawa Through TikTok

Dr. Bawa: Isn't it funny? You find me on the podcast, and now you are on the podcast.

John: Yeah, never expected that to happen.

Dr. Bawa: But here you are.

John: Yes, I've I saw you on TikTok. I've been following you for quite some time now. and finally just stepped out and said, I'm going to I'm going to do this. And so we set an appointment, and you know, that there was a couple options out there that I was looking at, and what you offered seemed seemed what I was looking for. it was more natural. It was you were well versed in your in your knowledge, and I just kind of connected with you through your TikToks. And that's how that's how we came about.

Dr. Bawa: And to think that I thought TikTok wasn't really my audience.

John: You know, I you know I can't speak for that. I know that I watch you all the time, and it's for me, it's just very interesting to listen to you talk about, especially as we age, you know, where we're at in our life, and I just found it fascinating and wanted to know more. And so that's why I reached out.

Dr. Bawa: When I started out on TikTok, I really wasn't sure what to expect. And then I went viral overnight and 10,000 followers within 24 hours. And from there to now, I think it's 130, 140 million views as we speak. That's a lot.

John: That's that's that's huge.

Dr. Bawa: People globally are looking at those videos, they are changing their concept of what sexuality is, what penis size is or can be, what their function can be. So many fake experts out there who are talking about all this nonsense. And I always say that I'm a voice of reason in a world gone mad.

John: Well, you're very direct and you're very optimistic about what you can do. And you can tell your professional at what it is that you can you're able to do, and you've proven it with me for certain for sure.

[04:20] From Treatment Room to Podcast

Dr. Bawa: Well, I'm happy about that. And it's funny how this recording even happened. You've had BawaBig® before, and you've been happy with it. So you came back and we were talking, and I said, Hey, let's have this conversation on the podcast. And here you are.

John: Here I am.

Dr. Bawa: A few minutes later. This is going to be a good episode because I think some of those conversations that I have in the room with patients need to come on the podcast. Too often I think, well, that was a damn fine conversation. I wish my listeners could tap into that, be a fly on the wall. And so this is so great because you don't live here, but you are here right now for the treatment. And so I cornered you and I said, let's go, let's talk.

John: Well, you know, that's that's one of the better things about this whole process, is how personal that we've become and how easy it is to talk to you about what the expectations are and what the expectations are going to be long term as well. granted, there's instant gratification there, but then there's also the future, and it's just an exciting process that I really look forward to.

Dr. Bawa: I look forward to giving you the results you've always wanted. And you know, it's very funny when I walk into the room. Very often my patients fly in from all over the world. They come to see me, but they're very surprised when they see me. So I always say, Your appointment was with me, right? You know that. They say, Yeah, but I still didn't think I'd see you. I thought I'd maybe see another doctor who works for you. I didn't really think you'd show up.

John: Well, and I kind of felt the same way. I was like, you know, she's you're kind of famous. And so like, are we really going to get a just a staff doctor? Or but actually you walked in and it's kind of like, not that I get starstruck, but it's like there she is, and you're actually doing the procedure. and but the whole time that the whole time that this is going on, we're talking about it and you're explaining everything, and that's what that's what makes it easy. And because it's a big step. It is a big step, you know, for to have the courage to come and actually do something like this is a big step, but I would say I wish I would have done it a long time ago.

[06:47] Why John Finally Called

Dr. Bawa: So what gave you the courage to finally pick up the phone and call?

John: I would probably say frustration. where I was as a man, as a 50-year-old man, where I was sexually, and you know, I wasn't performing like I once did. And I would say that's the biggest reason that I'm here. And then what guy doesn't want to be bigger?

Dr. Bawa: Of course.

John: and so icing on the cake, cherry on top. Yeah, so why not?

Dr. Bawa: Why not?

John: and so, you know, I did the experimental the first time, and you know, just looked in, you know, wanted to test the waters and saw instant growth. And I was like, wow. and so and I kind of kind of knew that I would have some girth, but then topping it, topping it off that the length was very impressive. I was I was shocked and so I'm just excited.

Dr. Bawa: I never promised length because it's hard to predict exactly how long somebody will get. Now everybody says you can't get longer without an implant. And yes, that was the case initially, but now with BawaBig®, we're showing that it's not the case anymore.

John: I did.

Dr. Bawa: You gained length.

John: First treatment. I was utterly amazed with probably to be quite honest with you, I was more amazed about the length than I was the girth initially, because I wasn't expecting length. And obviously the girth is there. That's a that's a no-brainer. but then when the when the length appeared, I was just like, I was a kid in the candy store.

Dr. Bawa: Christmas came early.

John: Yeah, I was just like, this is what every guy dreams of. I mean, and I don't care, you know, most guys that's just a thing. You know, they want to be bigger. and so that was just a goal, and you've you achieved it in one visit, you know, in a in a three-day, in a three-day process.

[09:04] Function First, Enlargement as a Bonus

Dr. Bawa: Now, the three-day process was when you were getting the other treatments like BawaWave®, BawaRF®, but it wasn't the enlargement. The enlargement was just one quick procedure.

John: Correct. But I was actually more interested in the procedures because of where I'm at in life. And the enlargement was just the icing on the cake. And that was the fun part. but I was I'm here to because I want to perform better. I don't I don't want to not satisfy. and so from I remember the days when I was 20, 30, even 40. But since I'm in my 50s, I've seen things go down quickly. And so I just I knew it was time. And I had been watching you for a while. I've watched other doctors, and but I just knew you were the right one because you talked about doing it the right way. I did not want an implant. and so, but then but you talked about the dynamics of of being more sexually active and having the stamina and and a full erection. I was more interested in that than I was the actual growing in size.

Dr. Bawa: So, like you said, you came for function, and the enlargement was the icing on the cake. Now, let's talk about the treatments themselves. You have just started the treatments, you haven't really gotten to the end of the protocol, but it's a process. And you're coming in from out of town, so you're coming for a few days at a time, and then you'll come back again. Now, you are highly motivated. You really want to get that function back, don't you?

John: I do. It's a big part of my life. I mean, satisfying your partner and but also the self-gratification of being able to function like I once did drove me, is what drove me to be here. I wanted a healthy sex life.

Dr. Bawa: And it's not just about pleasing your partner, though I do think that's a noble goal. You deserve pleasure, you deserve those erections and that orgasm, that ejaculation. You deserve every bit of it.

John: I think so. that's my goal.

Dr. Bawa: And you're on your way now.

John: And I'm definitely on my way.

Dr. Bawa: With a bigger penis.

John: With a bigger penis.

Dr. Bawa: And a longer penis.

John: And a longer penis, for sure. it's been fun. It's been a it's been a great experience. the staff is amazing, and everybody just treats me like they've known me for years, and yeah, I can't say enough about the experience. It's been very pleasurable.

[11:55] An Unexpected Improvement in Urination

Dr. Bawa: And that makes me very happy.

John: I would like to say that before I came that I was struggling with urinating with with a full with a full flow. And since the treatment, that has all gone away. And a little bit of pain that I was having when I was urinating, I thought I was having prostate issues. And so I was getting ready to go see a doctor, but after the one treatment, that's all gone. and I'm not sitting there urinating and experiencing the drip. I call it the old man's drip.

Dr. Bawa: Oh my god, the drip.

John: and so it's just that's been fascinating in itself, but it's just been 100% an incredible experience for me.

Dr. Bawa: So this one doctor is keeping you from needing other doctors.

John: Yeah, yeah. and I really didn't want to go do the whole prostate thing. and you know, then you always worry about men my age getting having prostate issues, and then they're going to want to have surgery and all that, and after the treatments here, you know, it's gone.

Dr. Bawa: We still do need to check your PSA levels, make sure that those levels are within normal limits. We still need you to have prostate exams and all of that. But improving your function without anything invasive is incredible.

John: Well, do you know how embarrassing it is when you're in a public restroom and you're taking forever to urinate and people are coming and going and you're still standing there and it's just dripping out? it's psychologically damaging and I hated it. You know, I'm in the airport and I have to go pee and I'm there forever when people and people come and go, and I'm like, you know, it's it plays with your mind a little bit. And now I don't have that issue, and I'm back to normal.

Dr. Bawa: When I tell people how great my protocol for shockwave therapy is, they assume it's some kind of marketing tactic. But it's actually true. BawaWave® is different. The energy we use, the protocol, how we do it, the areas we cover. This is not a quick in and out thing. We are doing the entire pelvis and we have a unique way of doing it. And see, you are having benefits that other people cannot provide you.

John: Yeah, I would I wasn't even anticipating these benefits. you know, I was strictly here for the sexual the erection, and but this was just a bonus that it resolved that as well. Yeah. so I'm very pleased with that.

[14:47] BawaWave®, BawaRF® and Avoiding Implants

Dr. Bawa: So talk about these procedures themselves. You had BawaWave®, which is our shockwave therapy protocol. You also did BawaRF®. And as far as I know, nobody else in the world of sexual health, at least around me, is doing radio frequency for men. When you were looking at other doctors, did you find it being done elsewhere?

John: No. the other doctors that I looked at were promoting implant. And I knew that wasn't the way I wanted to go. And you offered something more natural. So that's that's what brought me here.

Dr. Bawa: So tell me something that I'm really curious about. I've talked about this on the podcast previously, but I'm wondering now you looked at other doctors, they do implants. Did anybody ever tell you that a side effect of getting the implant is that if you are to take that implant out, you will never have a normal erection again?

John: No, that was never discussed.

Dr. Bawa: Never discussed.

John: No.

Dr. Bawa: Isn't that something?

John: It was it they were selling an implant.

Dr. Bawa: I've had patients come in who want it reversed and I explained to them that in many ways they are now stuck with an implant because I can't make them have an erection when they simply don't have the ability to do that anymore. When you get an implant, it's doing damage, it's cutting nerves, and those nerves never regenerate fully. So you never really have a normal erection again. You can't. So people are horrified. They say my doctor never told me. And I'm like, of course, of course they didn't tell you.

John: It's money.

Dr. Bawa: It's money.

John: and I and this program is it's not inexpensive, but it's worth it's worth every penny being where I'm at in life. But the the best thing is you're very honest about the whole program and what the expectations are. And that's what I appreciated. there was no there was no hidden agenda that you get that feeling with with some doctors.

Dr. Bawa: I'm a very transparent person and I'm a very transparent doctor. What you see is what you get. If I had to, you know, quote unquote sell it, I think I would choke on my own spit. I couldn't do it. I just couldn't do it.

John: Yeah, it sells itself. one visit and it the program just sells itself. I'll probably be a patient for life. just because for me it's become fun. and just I like being here.

Dr. Bawa: Had your penis size actually shrunk over time?

[17:24] Aging, Size Loss and Preserving Function

John: 100%. Where I was in my twenties versus 50. I've heard you say on your podcast, if you don't use it, you'll lose it. it had it had shrunk. It had gotten smaller. That's something you don't want to live with. I mean, you don't I mean it gets in the back of your head and it affects you.

Dr. Bawa: It does, and people don't realize that they're not alone, that it's happening to everyone. Now, some men I'll meet and they'll say, No, no, no, I'm exactly who I was at 20. And I just shrug and say, this is not worth the argument, and I move on because I know they are not exactly the same as they were at 20. It's not possible. But we can definitely maintain that. We can help people maintain where they're at now. And if they are wanting to be enlarged, we can change the entire game for them. You've had BawaRF®, the radio frequency treatment we do here at Bawa Medical, you've had BawaWave®, the shockwave protocol. And you know they're not painful, there's no downtime, all of that is good. But the other thing that they're doing, apart from improving your erectile function, is they are helping you with size.

Dr. Bawa: I'm not saying they're a form of penis enlargement, but what they do is they promote penis size by A, giving you more blood flow, and B by increasing the collagen and elastin in your penis. That's something nobody talks about.

John: I don't think the common person comprehends that. I think your medical profession, you know that, but the average person, I never knew that.

Dr. Bawa: The average doctor doesn't know that.

[19:01] One Inch Longer and Much Thicker

John: Right. it takes someone who's specialized to explain that. As we discussed, I'm an inch longer. Girth is probably three to four inches wider. that is for me amazing.

Dr. Bawa: If only people could see, you've got a naughty, happy grin on your face right now.

John: it's exciting. and so I'm now bigger than I ever was, and you know, I'm ready to put it to work.

Dr. Bawa: Oh, that's so funny. You mentioned to me that you have started masturbating more. Tell me about that.

John: Yeah, so it makes you want it after the program, and I think it's mostly with the length. I was so amazed with the length that I'm constantly I'm constantly going down there. it's a new Christmas toy. And that's what I how I explained it, but for sure, it's been exciting.

[20:06] A “New Christmas Toy” and His Wife’s Reaction

Dr. Bawa: I know your wife has already been texting you about whether you're even bigger yet.

John: Yeah, she's very excited. when I came home from my when I came home from my first treatment, she gave me a kiss and she said, let me see it. And so she's very excited about this as well.

Dr. Bawa: People say that size doesn't matter. I beg to differ. And there have been studies where they have shown women 3D models of penises and they've consistently picked bigger ones. And if they're looking to have a good time and a casual relationship or a one-night stand, they go for an even bigger penis. So isn't that interesting? People say it doesn't matter, but when they're actually shown models of penises, they're picking bigger ones.

John: It matters. It matters. You every you've heard the phrase, it's the motion of the ocean and all that. That's that's nothing more than what it is, a phrase. Men want a bigger penis and women want a bigger penis.

[21:03] Why Girth Matters

Dr. Bawa: And the girth matters so much because it stretches the vaginal canal and the receptors there love it. They feel a lot of pleasure from stretching. And so a thicker penis is definitely going to satisfy a woman more. There's no question about it.

John: Yeah, so when I originally decided to do the enlargement, I was not a believer that I was going to get length. So my goal was to have a Coke can. And because I wanted a thick one. And that was, but then again, the the most amazing part about my first treatment was the length.

Dr. Bawa: And I don't promise it because I'm not always sure how long people will get from it. I think doctors who promise a certain number of inches are lying, flat out lying. Because unless you put in an implant, you can't properly predict. How much thicker and how much longer? Because everybody's penis is different. Everybody has different amount of volume loss or different amount of length to begin with, different amount of girth to begin with. How can you have a set number of inches everybody grows? That's dishonest. This isn't a Chinese menu. You don't get, you know, a main of this and a side of that, you know, with a little egg roll thrown in. It doesn't work like that. Everybody is unique. So how can one promise so many inches? So with you, I never promised you a certain amount of length or a certain amount of girth.

Dr. Bawa: Yet not only have you had a massive increase in girth, you now have what, an inch longer penis after one treatment?

John: After one treatment.

Dr. Bawa: That's something pretty incredible.

John: Yeah, so that's pretty exciting.

[22:44] Confidence After Enlargement

Dr. Bawa: How has your longer, bigger penis affected your self-confidence?

John: I can't even describe it. It's definitely, definitely makes you pull your shoulders back and walk a little taller, for sure.

Dr. Bawa: I love it.

John: and so it makes you feel more of a man.

Dr. Bawa: While you are more than just your penis size, it is completely normal for a man to feel more confident when he's packing more of a punch between his legs. And it irritates me on a primal level when people try to run men down and maybe even humiliate them in some cases for wanting to be bigger. It's okay to want to be bigger. Women are getting bigger breasts all the time. They're getting facelifts, nips and tucks, and bigger butts with Brazilian butt lifts and whatnot. So why is it not okay for a man to have a bigger penis? How sexist.

John: Yeah, and just to be honest with you, I don't really care what other people think. I want what I want. It was it's been quite rewarding.

[23:48] Supplements and Blood Flow

Dr. Bawa: You're also taking the supplements.

John: Religiously.

Dr. Bawa: That is a great thing because that is going to help not only your testosterone levels, your blood flow through the nitric oxide boosting, but also your libido.

John: Everything that I've read about the nitric oxide is it's a necessity for the blood flow. And so I'm just following that exactly like I've been instructed.

Dr. Bawa: I think it's also important that the quality of what we're giving you is high. These are pharmaceutical grade, these are US-made supplements. So many supplements on the market, if you look at the back of the bottles, they say distributed by whoever, they don't say where they're made. Because you don't want to know where they're made.

John: Yeah, it's scary.

Dr. Bawa: It is very scary.

John: You don't know what you're putting in your body.

Dr. Bawa: Exactly. Quality matters. And it's very important that we pay attention to what we put into our bodies. When you think about genetically modified foods, for instance, they can have a profound impact on our health. Chemicals that aren't allowed in Europe are being allowed in kids cereals in this country. And I think we have a long way to go before we can truly clean up our food supply and our grocery stores and everything that we consider so basic. It's going to take a while. But at least with the supplements, you know you're headed in the right direction. At least that is figured out in your life.

[25:14] Losing 35 Pounds and Changing His Lifestyle

John: Correct. I read somewhere last week that 74% of adult men are overweight. Why is that?

Dr. Bawa: And let me tell you another number. Of the men who are obese, they have a 50 to 60% higher chance of having erectile dysfunction because of their weight alone.

John: I can tell you in this process, I've lost 35 pounds.

Dr. Bawa: Hallelujah. And you've got to tell our listeners about how I was scolding you when I first met you about changing your lifestyle and this and that. It wasn't just about, hey, swipe a card and get this treatment or that treatment. This was about a lifestyle change, not just adding treatments and keeping everything else the same.

John: Yeah, you demanded my blood work and you said you said you threatened to stop seeing me.

Dr. Bawa: Absolutely.

John: Because I was I was self-injecting testosterone to try to get myself where I needed to be. and you said, I won't treat you if you continue.

Dr. Bawa: You're right, I did say that.

John: Yep. And so I stopped. And I'm not currently on any testosterone.

[26:21] Stopping Black-Market Testosterone

Dr. Bawa: Let's clarify. It wasn't the testosterone that was the problem. The problem was that you were self-medicating and you were getting it on the black market.

John: Correct.

Dr. Bawa: And I just about flipped out when I heard that.

John: You did. You did.

Dr. Bawa: And I did demand more of you because I wanted you to have a better life, not just a harder penis. You are worth more than what you were doing to yourself.

John: Your exact words were, My God, man, you're going to kill yourself. And that's exactly what you said to me. Kind of scared me because I was self-medicating.

Dr. Bawa: You scared me. I was like, oh my God.

John: Yeah, but and I had been doing it for years and just thinking that, you know, that the rule is you do a maintenance, you do a maintenance level every week. And that's just what I followed. And I didn't realize what I was doing to myself.

Dr. Bawa: I take care of my patients. You know, it's not just about swiping a card, it's not just about cashing a check. You become part of my tribe. And I don't want to be up at night wondering what's happening with you. I don't want to have to be worried about it. I don't want to have to think about, oh my God, what's his testosterone level going to do? Is he going to give himself a heart attack over it? Is he going to stroke out because his levels are crazy? What's going to happen? And people don't realize what a far-reaching impact hormones can have. And it wasn't just about hormones, it was also about lifestyle choices. But you decided to make a change and you are so much better already. I mean, look at how much weight you've lost.

John: Happier.

Dr. Bawa: You're happier, you're healthier. This is good.

John: Thank you.

[27:57] SexSpan™ and Whole-Body Transformation

Dr. Bawa: You're very welcome. And I always say you do as much for me as I do for you, because I do this for a reason. I want to help. I want to transform lives. It's not just something I say at the beginning of my podcast with shits and giggles. I mean it. It's important. It's important that we do that. And I think it's important that we change the conversation around not just penis size and sexuality, but health and wellness, what it really means. When I gave my TEDx talk this May, it was titled, How to Biohack Your SexSpan™. And then the people from TEDx were a little confused. They said, What does SexSpan™ even mean? Don't call it SexSpan™. So I explained to them that sex span is a term I use to describe sexual longevity. People talk about health span, lifespan, but what about your sexual span or SexSpan™? But they were very confused. So I changed it to how to biohack your sex life.

Dr. Bawa: But that was my whole point.

John: Yeah, so I'm just excited for the future. I can't wait to continue this process.

[29:03] John’s Advice to Men

Dr. Bawa: What would you advise people who are listening today, perhaps not having much function in bed or maybe unhappy with the size of their penis? What would you tell them?

John: Why not? Why not try it? There's nothing to lose and everything to gain. I can't thank you enough. but it's been life-changing, it's been exciting, and I'm just excited to continue. You've you've made a difference in my life. And I think that's the key to success. In no matter what profession you're in, making a difference in others' lives is what we're really here to do, and you've done that for me. So thank you.

Dr. Bawa: Thank you. That means a lot to me. I hope you know that.

John: It's just the truth. I can't begin to tell you how thankful I am for you.

Dr. Bawa: You are a different man today than you were when I met you. You know that?

John: I'm happy.

Dr. Bawa: You look different. It's like there's a light within you now.

John: I was depressed, I was defeated, and I was about to give up. And you changed that in one treatment. Now I'm energized, I'm excited, and I'm happy. What more could one want?

[30:17] The Best Is Yet to Come

Dr. Bawa: The best is yet to come.

John: Yeah, I'm just I'm delighted. I can't wait. So it's been it's been a great experience. And when I walk in, I feel like home. Everybody is just wonderful here. Your assistants are incredible. you have an amazing staff.

Dr. Bawa: I am very proud of them. It is important to me that you are comfortable. It is important to me that you are happy, and also that you feel respected throughout. I don't want you to feel humiliated. It's important that we take care of you, not just physically but emotionally.

John: Well, it's been a great experience. You have, like I said, a wonderful staff and they do just that.

[30:59] Closing Thoughts

Dr. Bawa: Transformation is not just about how we look, but about how we feel, the choices we make, and the way we live. Confidence can spark a chain reaction that touches every part of your life. My patient's journey is proof that when you invest in yourself, you can unlock a future full of possibilities and purpose. Make sure you subscribe to the Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast, leave a five-star review, and share this episode with your partner and friends. Follow me on YouTube at Dr. Sex Fairy, TikTok at @drsexfairy, and Instagram at @therealdrsexfairy. Visit drsexfairy. com to connect with me no matter where you are in the world. I do both virtual and in-office consultations, so there's no excuse to not get started right away. There is a link for my U. S.-made and highly effective Dr. Sex Fairy supplements in the description below, and you can also find them on drsexfairy. com.

Dr. Bawa: Remember, transformation is a journey, not a destination. So take the first step and trust in the magic of possibility. Until next time.