Ep. 107: How to Save Your Penis

[00:03] Episode Preview: BawaShot vs. Teeth Whitening

Host: Dr. Kanwal Bawa | Guest: Wayne | Runtime: 20:06 | Published: January 9, 2024

Dr. Bawa: The results are already, from what we've discussed, showing, so that's a good thing.

Wayne: Yes, I'm very excited.

Dr. Bawa: Let's talk about the BawaShot now. Men get very deer-in-the-headlights and worried when they think about a needle going into their penis. But how was your experience with that?

Wayne: I didn't feel the needle in my penis at all. It was a pain-free experience. I went and got my teeth whitened after this, and the next day, when I expected some pain in my penis area, I didn't have any pain, but my teeth hurt like a son of a gun.

[00:52] Welcome: Penis Prejuvenation

Dr. Bawa: Welcome to America's number one sexuality podcast, Dr. Sex Fairy. I am Dr. Kanwal Bawa, America's favorite sex doctor, and I am here to transform your life. If you are watching this on YouTube, don't forget to subscribe to this channel and support it with likes, shares, and comments. Also subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and leave me a five-star review.

Dr. Bawa: Today's episode is all about penis prejuvenation, or preventing penis problems from developing in the first place. The vast majority of men do nothing to preserve sexual function during the early years of life, and even after they develop the initial signs of erectile dysfunction, they are in a state of denial for the first few years or even decades in many cases. I often discuss the importance of preservation, and so my focus today is on discussing how to preserve and optimize your sexual function.

[01:45] Wayne: Prevention Before Problems

Dr. Bawa: My guest today is Wayne, a young man in his 20s who has no complaints whatsoever. He first discovered me on TikTok and began watching my videos, which often discussed ways to biohack sexual function in both men and women. He traveled all the way from Wisconsin for his treatments, and he is back in our office today to discuss his story. Welcome to the Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast, Wayne. It's wonderful to have you back in the office today.

Wayne: Thank you. I'm very honored to be here.

[02:27] From TikTok to Bawa Medical

Dr. Bawa: So tell me your story. TikTok to my office. How did that journey occur?

Wayne: Well, I saw you on TikTok and I started watching your videos and started following you and learned more and more, and I was very intrigued. So I did a consultation, and I was intrigued with the information I got. Not that I did have a problem, but I wanted to make sure that I don't ever have a problem. So I traveled from Wisconsin to the office.

Dr. Bawa: You're a smart man. Not one of those “I'm not that bad yet” people.

Wayne: Yeah. I mean, my function is very good, but you can never go wrong with improving.

[03:10] ED in Men in Their 20s

Dr. Bawa: You can never go wrong with improvement and optimization. That's right. And given the fact that you've started now in your mid-20s, when you're not having a problem, your chances of having wonderful performance and function long term have gone sky high. Do you know that 2 out of every 10 men in their 20s suffer from erectile problems?

Wayne: I did not know that. That's mind-boggling, to be honest.

Dr. Bawa: It's mind-boggling, isn't it? Because you think that somebody in their 20s has perfect sexual function. And thankfully for you, you do have excellent function. But 2 out of 10 men in a lineup in their 20s cannot perform in bed.

Wayne: That's sad.

Dr. Bawa: It is mind-boggling. The issue is that there's a lot of shame associated with it. Men in their 20s who can't perform feel very embarrassed about it because they think there's something seriously wrong with them, that they're freaks or something. And my goal is to let people know that this is perfectly normal. Not something you want happening to you, but it's happening to other people as well. And statistically, ED goes up about 10% for every decade of life. So 3 men out of every 10 in their 30s, and so on and so forth. So by doing the treatments in your 20s, you are really biohacking your sexual health.

Wayne: That's awesome. That's the goal here.

[04:32] Wayne's BawaWave Experience

Dr. Bawa: Let's talk about the treatments you had here. One of the treatments you had was BawaWave, our proprietary protocol for shockwave therapy. And that is something that breaks down blockages and promotes great blood flow in the entire pelvic area. Because, after all, we don't just treat the penis; we treat the entire groin. So how did you find that experience? Did you find that uncomfortable in any way?

Wayne: It was very pain-free, easy in and out. Ten minutes, I was in and done and back out the door and back about my day. And I'm interested to see what the results bring.

Dr. Bawa: It was a little more than 10 minutes. But the results are already, from what we've discussed, showing, so that's a good thing.

Wayne: Yes, I'm very excited.

[05:22] The BawaShot: A Pain-Free Experience

Dr. Bawa: Let's talk about the BawaShot now. Men get very deer-in-the-headlights and worried when they think about a needle going into their penis. But how was your experience with that?

Wayne: I didn't feel the needle in my penis at all. It was a pain-free experience. I went and got my teeth whitened after this. And the next day, when I expected some pain in my penis area, I didn't have any pain, but my teeth hurt like a son of a gun.

Dr. Bawa: See? So, people, having the BawaShot is more benign than having your teeth whitened. You heard it here.

Wayne: If you're scared of the shot, if that's what's holding you back, there's nothing to worry about.

Dr. Bawa: Nothing to worry about.

Wayne: Pain-free.

Dr. Bawa: Pain-free. Music to everybody's ears as they listen to you right now.

[06:11] From an Amish Farm to Dr. Sex Fairy

Dr. Bawa: You have a very interesting background. I didn't realize that you grew up Amish. You were Amish until 21 years of age, when you left to go out into the big bad world that we live in. And you grew up very differently than the average American. So it makes your journey to my office all the more interesting. From an Amish farm to the Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast in my office. How did that happen?

Wayne: Sex was meant to make babies in the Amish, and performance wasn't something they worried about. But for me, performance is important because I like pleasure and pleasing my partner as well.

Dr. Bawa: So lofty goals indeed. I think that's great because, as Amish, you grew up without sexual education of any kind. So you are going out proactively and trying to make up for lost time. And I think it's great that you found my TikTok, Dr. Sex Fairy, and that you came to my office because that's been a game changer for you.

Wayne: Absolutely.

[07:22] Growing Up Amish

Dr. Bawa: In Episode 52 of the Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast, “Shocking Sex Secrets of the Amish,” I spoke to three Amish who had left their communities. Now, they came from very orthodox Amish communities, and their lives were really quite horrific in many ways. How was your upbringing? Was it orthodox? Was it somewhat liberal? Tell me more about that.

Wayne: I grew up in a more liberal community. Our teachers were American, or “English,” as we would call them. So ours was a little bit more educational, I would think, than most of the communities around us. It was unique in our community. But our parents never really showed affection or told us that they loved us or gave us hugs or anything like that. But that was just the way it was. That's how they were taught, and that's how it was for them. So that's the only thing they knew.

[08:35] Responsibility, Farming, and Growing Up Fast

Wayne: We had a lot of equipment and stuff that the more conservative ones wouldn't have, so our lives were a little bit easier, but still a lot of work had to go into farming and whatever we did just because we couldn't have tractors and all that. So we had a lot of responsibility growing up as kids because we always had chores, and our dads had jobs, so we had a lot of responsibility. We learned how to take care of things at a young age, and we figured out what life was real quick.

Dr. Bawa: So it was a tough childhood in many ways.

Wayne: Yeah, you could say so, but I don't regret growing up that way simply because it gave me the work ethic I have now to run my business, and gave me the knowledge and the strength to push through those things when times are tough. You figure out how to do it and keep going.

[09:29] Learning Affection and Partnership

Dr. Bawa: Have you had to teach yourself how to be affectionate, given the fact that you didn't grow up with physical shows of affection?

Wayne: Absolutely. If you date an English girl, it's completely different than in the Amish world. So you have to figure out how to communicate your love and affection. And I have done lots of studies and classes on that simply because I had nothing that taught me that. So, yeah, it was on my own when I left, and I had to figure that out myself.

Dr. Bawa: So you've had to relearn how to treat women like an equal partner in your life.

Wayne: Yes. English women expect to be treated a lot differently than Amish women would. They request a lot more respect and honor than an Amish woman would. Not that they don't honor and respect the women, but they just kind of go with the flow and do as a good wife should.

Dr. Bawa: As a good wife should. I don't know that I would work out in an Amish community, I suppose.

Wayne: Yeah, I don't think most English women would.

[10:40] Growing Up With No Sex Education

Dr. Bawa: How about sexual education? You came from a more liberal Amish community. Did you have any?

Wayne: There was zero sex education simply because that was something that wasn't to be talked about. You talked about that with your partner in the bedroom, and that was it. So there was no education on that, and you pretty much figured that out once you had a partner. You learned, you made mistakes, and learned that yourself.

[11:08] Leaving the Amish and Being Shunned

Dr. Bawa: Were you shunned when you left the Amish?

Wayne: Yes, I was, by the church and my family, and I wasn't allowed to eat with them or come to family events or anything like that. I wasn't invited to any of it. And whenever they would reach out or try to call, they would just lash out and say bad things and tell you how you're doing wrong and you're living a wrong life. So for three years, I completely cut my family off just because I wasn't strong enough to handle that kind of words, and being out on my own and trying to figure out life, it was too much for me to handle all that at once. So I cut them off for three years, and this last Thanksgiving I reached out to my parents and re-established a relationship with most of my family. So it's been really good since then.

[12:02] Reconnecting With Family

Dr. Bawa: That's really great. What about your siblings?

Wayne: My siblings, I have 10 brothers and 2 sisters. Most of them are married. Four brothers left the Amish as well, so I have kind of a family with them. But I also re-established my relationship with my siblings as well. Obviously, they still don't allow me to come to family events or Christmas or anything like that, but I get to go visit them in between time, so it still works out.

Dr. Bawa: So they still haven't really accepted you back into the fold?

Wayne: No, they never will, just because that's the way they believe and that's the way they're taught, and they stick with the rules and their ways. They'll never allow me to be a part of Christmas or the holidays or family events. But that's something you understand when you leave the Amish. You realize that's going to happen, so you have to weigh your options and see if that's something you want to give up. And for me, I was trapped, and I just felt like I was a free person and I didn't feel freedom when I was in the Amish. So I gave up that so I could have freedom within myself and be happy as a person.

[13:20] Creating Your Own Family

Dr. Bawa: I guess in your case, your family is going to end up being the one you create yourself: friends, cousins, brothers that left, and just people who mean something to you.

Wayne: Absolutely. And I have done that, and you figure out pretty quick who your family is when you're out and alone in the world. You establish relationships and you have friends that you hang out with, and you call them family pretty quick just because they are your family. Even though they're not blood, they become your family because that's all you have.

Dr. Bawa: So you need people that support you and love you, and I'm sure you have that, and that you will continue to build your community as time goes on.

Wayne: Yes, absolutely. It is a journey and a mission of mine to show people that sometimes you have to give up things that you don't want to, but it's worth it in the end for yourself if you're doing it for yourself and making yourself happy. If you're stuck in that trap, you're not prospering in life, you're not doing the things you love to do, and you just feel like you're trapped. And once you leave all that and find yourself, it's like freedom. So it's been amazing.

[14:43] Freedom, Confidence, and Self-Esteem

Dr. Bawa: In your case, it was freedom from the shackles of being Amish. For other people, that could mean something very different. It could be leaving an abusive relationship. It could be anything. The idea is, if you're not comfortable and happy where you are, if you're not thriving, if you're not growing, you need to pull yourself out of it. And that process may be extremely uncomfortable, as it has been for you, but so worth it in the end.

Wayne: Yes, absolutely. Coming out of Amish, I had no confidence in myself, no self-esteem. And that can be coming out of any relationship or whatever it is. But if you make a journey in yourself, a mission to re-establish that within yourself, you'll be amazed what you can do with life.

Dr. Bawa: And you brought up a great point. Self-esteem, self-confidence, that's so important for a fulfilling sexual relationship. So hopefully, as you are evolving as a young man, you are becoming more fulfilled and more confident in the bedroom as well.

Wayne: Yes. Not having any sexual skills or training, this also gives me some confidence just in that aspect to know that I can perform well and be a good partner.

[16:04] Dating Without the Apps

Dr. Bawa: So now that function is better than before, how is dating going to be for you? Are you going to go on Bumble or Tinder?

Wayne: I don't know. I'm not a big fan of the dating apps. I like to build my confidence by going out and talking to girls in person. So I feel like I have more confidence just to do that. I'm excited to keep building the confidence and self-esteem in myself.

Dr. Bawa: That's wonderful, because there are so many missed opportunities in life. People spend their lives just looking at their phones nowadays, and there are people to your left, to your right, in front of you, behind you. And I think people are so disconnected from their present moment. Even if you look at going to a concert or being at some kind of special event, I think we are so focused as a society now just trying to capture it, taking selfies, taking videos, that we are forgetting to live in that moment itself. So I commend you for trying to find love out in the real world.

[17:06] Living in the Moment

Wayne: I'm very grateful for the background of not having a phone when I grew up because now I don't need it. When I'm out doing something, I see everyone on their phone and taking videos and stuff. And I believe in enjoying the moment and just living in the moment. Obviously, capture as much as you can, but it seems like you forget to enjoy the moment when you're on your phone or taking pictures and whatnot.

Dr. Bawa: So it's like when people get their food delivered at a restaurant and they're busy taking pictures while the food is getting cold. I can understand taking a picture of a beautiful dessert or something occasionally, but my goodness, it's become a sickness in our society, hasn't it?

Wayne: Yes, it has. Snapchat eats first. In today's world, Snapchat eats first.

[17:52] Supplements and Staying Proactive

Dr. Bawa: Snapchat eats first. I like that. That's funny. Another great thing you have chosen to do is taking Dr. Sex Fairy supplements. And I think that's a great move because now you are proactively doing something for yourself that will help increase blood flow, increase testosterone, and increase your libido and general sexual performance.

Wayne: Yes, I think it's very beneficial. It ties in with the procedures that we did. And if it's as easy as taking a few pills every morning and night, absolutely.

Dr. Bawa: You're in.

Wayne: I'm all in.

[18:26] Wayne's Takeaway: Preservation and Living on Your Own Terms

Dr. Bawa: Well, Wayne, thank you so very much for coming on the Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast today. It's been such a great conversation, from the fact that you came in for prejuvenation, for preserving function and optimizing it, and the fact that you have taken charge of your life from being Amish and repressed to now living your best life on your own terms. Thank you so much.

Wayne: Thank you. I was honored to be here.

[18:54] Recorded Outro

Dr. Bawa: Wayne's story teaches us to not only preserve function, but to optimize performance and pleasure as well. He chose to take control of his sexual function both in the present and the future by undergoing BawaWave and the BawaShot. He is an example of how it is never too soon to think about sexual health. You may be older than Wayne, and you may already have erectile issues, but it is never too late to live the life you deserve.

Dr. Bawa: I invite you to contact me to discuss your own sexual function and performance. Make sure you hit that subscribe button on my YouTube channel, Dr. Sex Fairy, and on your favorite podcast platform, whether it is Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or elsewhere.

[19:35] Closing Message

Dr. Bawa: Stay tuned for more fascinating discussions on matters of penises and vaginas, hormones, supplements, techniques, treatments, and more. May your life be filled with love, passion, connection, and profound pleasure. Until next time.